European AI Companions
AI companion apps see more personal conversation than almost any other software category — and most of the big ones store every message on US servers. These European companion platforms run under GDPR, are explicit about retention and deletion, and let you use a persona without handing your chat history to an American ad-tech pipeline.
7 European AI Companions
Selira AI
Character chat with EU hosting and per-character memory
Simone
Conversational AI companion with a consistent persona
BirdyChat
Roleplay and companion chat with European data storage
Darlink
Companion app built around long-running relationships
Everia
Character creation with fine-grained personality controls
Xeve.ai
German-built companion and roleplay chat with EU hosting
MyLovely AI
Companion app with voice and image generation
How We Choose European AI Companions
- EU or UK establishment
- Clear data retention policy
- Message deletion on request
- No training on private chats by default
- Age verification
Frequently Asked Questions
The ones listed here are established in the EU, Switzerland or the UK and are therefore bound by GDPR or its national equivalent. In practice that means you can request a copy of your conversations, ask for deletion, and the provider has to tell you what it keeps and for how long — obligations that do not automatically apply to a US-hosted app.
European providers generally have to obtain a legal basis before using personal conversations for model training, and most default to not doing it. Always check the privacy policy: the relevant question is whether training is opt-in or opt-out, and whether the setting is honoured retroactively.
Yes. Under GDPR you have a right to erasure, and every provider on this page offers deletion either in-app or on request. Note that deletion of backups can lag by days rather than being instant — the policy should say how long.
Character.AI is a US company, so your conversations sit under US jurisdiction and are reachable via instruments like the CLOUD Act. It also applies fairly aggressive content filtering that many users find inconsistent. European alternatives give you EU jurisdiction and, in most cases, clearer rules about what is and is not allowed.
The Complete Guide to European AI Companions
What makes a companion app European
The label only means something if the company is actually established here. A useful test is the imprint or legal page: it should name a company registered in an EU or UK jurisdiction, with a named data controller and an address you could send a subject access request to. Hosting alone is not enough — a US company renting Frankfurt servers is still a US company for the purposes of the CLOUD Act.
What to check before you commit
Three things matter more than feature lists. First, retention: how long are conversations kept after you stop using the service. Second, training: whether your chats feed the model, and whether that is opt-in. Third, export and deletion: whether you can get your data out and have it removed without emailing support three times. Every provider on this page publishes answers to at least the first two.
Looking for a direct swap? See our comparison of European alternatives to Character.AI.